Break Him In

Have you ever wondered why women choose to stay with men who beat them.......mentally abuse them......or just plain out suck?(not literally......I could understand that part)

Don't worry ladies.....it's not your fault.
Women are like primitive cowboys.
No matter how much make-up they put on, or how high their heels are, they can not escape the core, instincts that they were born with.
Women,.....like men, need to conquer something.
They need to feel like they had a hand in sculpting their perfect environment.

Think about...
When a woman moves into a house, what is the first thing she does??????
When a woman gets into a relationship, what is the first thing she does?????
When a woman gets a new car, what is the first thing she does?????
SHE CHANGES IT TO FIT HER PERCEPTION OF HOW IT SHOULD BE.
She has to customize it in order to make it hers.

So why in the hell should a guy be any different to her?
She has to customize him to fit her perception of how he should be.

Well, the problem  with that is that you CAN'T CHANGE PEOPLE.
You can temporarily get them to act a certain way, but deep down inside, that person will always be the person that they were born.
Which is why, when you understand why a woman is how she is, it makes it easier to tolerate her actions....
SHE CAN'T HELP IT.

Since most of my readers are women, I probably just lost half of my audience, but fuck it.
If you can't handle the truth, you would have never began reading my blog in the first place......right?

If a perfect man fell in a woman's lap, she would try and change him regardless of the fact that he is already perfect.
No woman wants a perfect man....She wants a man who is perfect for her.....and that requires customization.

She doesn't want someone who doesn't need her to "fix him".
That is where she gets her satisfaction from.
So she can sit back, years down the road and look at her finished product.....saying "there,...now aren't you glad I came into your life and set you straight?"

So when you see a woman in a bad relationship and ask yourself....."Self.., why is that woman staying with that asshole?"
You should know that she needs him, as much as he needs her.
She thinks she can change him, and he knows he can control her.

Which is why an abusive man turns into a bitch when a real man hits him in the fuckin mouth.
He isn't used to it.
His body goes into shock when it feels fear for the first time and sees blood on his shirt.(his own blood, for once)

So, ladies, this wasn't the female bashing blog that you originally thought it was.........was it?
Just know that a man can only do what you allow him to do. Which makes your situation (good or bad) a product of your own doing.

If he treats you bad and you stay with him,
Don't cry about it. Relish in the fact that you choose him.....and you have a lot of work to do to make him your perfect little man.